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Could you please tell me how to handle the issue we have currently? Could you please tell me what a Chinese woman should pay more attention to when she is dating an American man? As far as I can tell, neither you nor the American man you met online are all that into each other.

If your interest in this man is only as a way to get to America and experience the lifestyle which is acceptable in Western society then you may find yourself in a relationship where you are very unhappy and isolated when you are denied this independence.Global Times recently published an article written by a “Stephanie N.” Titled “Single foreign females in China don’t have it easy“, Stephanie complains that circumstances are tough for her and other foreign women when it comes to finding love in Shanghai, saying that the “odds are simply against us” and calling the entire experience “bittersweet”.No one is spared in Stephanie’s deconstruction of the Wild West of relationships that is Shanghai.If we get along, then he will apply for the visa for me.To be honest, sometimes I am not happy being with him, but I don't want to lose him. Dear Danqi, What a Chinese woman should pay attention to when she is dating an American man or any man, is how she feels when she is with him, talking with him on the phone or through the Internet. Or, do you feel that your thoughts and opinions are not important, that he is not that interested in getting to know you or that he gets angry quickly when you express thoughts and ideas which are different then his?Perhaps Stephanie needs to raise the plight of expat women in China by taking expat men down a peg.

After all, she did write “[expat women] have to accept their singleness or grow old waiting for white guys to come to their senses”. But we still communicate through phone calls and online chatting. But we haven't gotten along since we met the second time and since then he started to focus on another woman.She uses this opportunity to complain about both men and women from China and abroad, implicating everyone for their part in contributing to her plight.Stephanie begins by establishing the first rule to learn about dating in Shanghai: Expat men are “spoiled by choice” by “a frenzy of dating as many local women as they possibly can with absolutely no commitment to any of them”.Incapable of repelling sexual advances due to being “inhibited about their sexuality” and a “submissive nature in the bedroom”, Stephanie describes Chinese women as Shanghai’s renewable resource that keeps replenishing the carnal needs of its dating pool, “ensuring that most Western men here are never short on sex”.