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19-Dec-2016 21:22 by 7 Comments

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Sex is not very exciting, but it is satisfying for both of us. His drive has diminished considerably, which is normal when Sex Addicts give up their fantasy world.

He claims it not only took away his urge to smoke, but also took away his urge to act out.

His therapy freed him to talk about his addiction without his previous shame and guilt, and, he had stopped lying. It is extremely stable and calm and we are both very happy.

Larry does not struggle with urges to act out, but he is ever vigilant to not stare at or objectify women.

I found out about his thousand dollar a month prostitute habit just three and a half months after we were married.

We had been together for three years and I knew he had been in chat rooms during our relationship.

We lived in separate states for three and a half years.

During that time Larry went through a long period of denial, lying to me, to his counselors and to his 12 step groups.

’ All I could say was ‘I’ll know it when I see it.’ We both underwent weekly counseling and Larry also attended a weekly support group for Sex Addicts as well as several 12 step meetings each week.

He struggled and just could not connect with his counselor.

I maintained that I had not seen the ‘paradigm shift’ in his attitude that I felt was necessary.

He didn’t understand what I meant and at times would yell, ‘Just what do you want from me, Jo Ann?

He fluctuated between bouts of sobriety and bouts of acting out.