Dating a reformed player
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Before you get crazy and start having all kinds of thoughts, let me explain MY definition of a player.
This is my analogy…I have always made sure that like a basketball coach, I always had a team on the bench.
I know all of this sounds crazy but I vowed to keep it 100 on here and if I’m lying, I’m flying and I ain’t took off yet!
I have often been told that I have a “man’s mentality,” thus, trying to run game and get over on me just wasn’t happening. Ty Knighten Ty Knighten knows a thing or two about relationships and dating.
• I was never “whipped” and never had the “you just know” feeling. • I had never had a girlfriend for longer than 8 months before. That my moral code and integrity were my most valued traits.
• She wasn’t my “type” – liberal, Ivy League, ambitious, East Coast. After 16 months, I was either going to propose or break up and I didn’t know which. So even though she could tell that I had a wide alpha-male, know-it-all streak, it was always tempered by the fact that I was sensitive, open and honest with her – even when I was confused about our future.
The saying is true, “game recognize game” and I can smell bullshit a mile away. I always believed that you should get all of that out of your system BEFORE you have kids. To say that my son has brought me to a screeching halt would be an understatement. I don’t really have very much time for anything and anyone else, thus part of why I am single…sort of (I do have a Boo Thang, now, but that’s another blog for another day). They say you live and you learn and Lord knows that I have learned a lot and change can be good! A single mom from Calif., Ty decided to turn her experiences in love and relationships into a blog.
I have always had the gift of gab, some would say a “mouthpiece” and it has worked to my advantage on many occasions but something happened to that mouthpiece and my boldness once I had my son. Mothers should not be in the clubs every night when they have children at home. It’s really a trip when I look at myself, then and now. Now, it’s about making sure that my son has the best possible life. Written with plenty of sass, her mission is to help women empower themselves to realize love, success and confidence through her articles.
You know, some are good at hitting 3 point shots, some are good at defense, etc.
I had some who were good with paying my bills, some who were good at buying things, some who I could talk to about any and everything, some who were a “,” etc.
”) If it sounds like I’m teasing you, Ashley, well, I am.
Because, no matter how important such “tests” are (and they are), and how much women want them (a lot), they all pale in comparison to the one test that I can offer that’s close to foolproof. If your biggest concern is that everyone puts on his best face for a long time, then the ONLY thing you can do is sit back and observe him.
Yes, this is a test that everybody knows about and it’s FAR more effective than “So, where do you see yourself in five years? And yet somehow, it’s not considered very popular in the female community. Literally ANYTHING else you try to do to “weed him out” is going to be obvious, tone-deaf, and likely ineffective. Because, by your logic, my wife would have weeded me out really early on. • We hooked up (without sleeping together) for a month before I became her boyfriend.